On bounded languages and the geometry of nilpotent groups ========================================================= Combinatorial and Geometric Group Theory, Edinburgh 1993, London Math. Soc. Lecture Notes 204, Cambr. U. P. 1995, 1-15 (with Martin Bridson. Bounded languages are a class of formal languages which includes all context free languages of polynomial growth. We prove that if a finitely generated group G admits a combing by a bounded language and this combing satisfies the asynchronous fellow traveller property, then either G is virtually abelian, or else G contains an element g of infinite order such that g^n and g^m are conjugate for some 0